Women expect a man to bring more to the table than she does. She expects him to have a larger source of income than she has, to be attractive by her standards, to be able to stimulate her in the type of mundane conversations she partakes in, to have the same life goals as her and to put aside any dreams he may have had that would interfere with her own dreams and desires. In her mind, sex and children is more than enough, any anything extra like being a housewife and maintaining a consistent sex life is just icing on the cake that he should be grateful for.
For most men, that is enough. Most men have an incredibly low value for themselves and don’t appreciate what they bring to the table. When you find MGTOW and learn to put yourself first, you begin to realize there is no table. All of those requirements and standards that you used to worry about go right out the window. You become able to give exactly what you want to give and take exactly what you want to take.
The table existed to bring two separate and opposing parties, men and women, together to negotiate a compromise that could benefit both of them. Today, there is no negotiation that can take place. The table has been flipped, revealing the disparity between the sexes and women’s inability to compromise on their biological imperatives when they are legally and socially enabled to pursue them to the fullest extent of their capabilities.
The men on the plantation are still sitting there, trying to lift the table and turn it upright, to put the pieces back together, while MGTOW have walked away entirely, seeking bigger and better things. Many of you long to sit back at the table, and I don’t blame you because it is nature’s great purpose for you, but once you have been away from the negotiating table long enough, you begin to see that it was nothing but a hindrance.
Sitting at the table prevented you from finding your real purpose. It put you in a position of weakness because you were dependent on another party to give you what you desired. Having complete control over your life, your actions, and your choices allows you to walk that path that leads to finding your great purpose, not allowing nature to dictate what your existence will be.
The men stuck in that natural cycle never have the ability to explore the path because they never had the freedom to choose anything for themselves, they allowed their biological instincts to choose their destiny, not their minds. They allow the table to determine their entire existence. If women don’t approve of it, it is cut out and replaced with something that will help him at the negotiating table. Observe how quickly a man will abandon his friends, his family, his hobbies, and his purpose for a woman if she deems it to be a threat to their relationship. That man is chained to the table, and cannot leave because his biology is in the driver’s seat, steering him around the opportunities for happiness and lasting fulfillment in favor of the basic instincts.
Unshackling oneself from the table is a difficult process, one that is completed in phases. The first is realizing that you can, indeed, walk away from the table. Many men can’t imagine a life without a wife. To them, it is not a life worth living. When they see that a man can not only have happiness without a wife, but that he can in fact have the milk for free without buying the cow in today’s society, he will begin to consider his options.
The next phase is realizing that you can remove things from the table. Anything that you place on that table is there for a reason. If something is not working for you, then the negotiations should end immediately. When you remove things from the table after finding MGTOW, it creates a glass ceiling for any future relationships or interactions with women you may have in the future. Removing marriage from the table filters out a lot of women, but some may think they can wear you down and get you to change your mind in the future, while others will go along with that, as we’re seeing the marriage rates fall despite couples being in relationships for many years. Removing cohabitation from the table will filter out the rest, as women seek to tie a man down in the household and drain him slowly over time.
The last phase is the understanding that there is no table. It was an illusion constructed by society which used your biology to hold you hostage and make you think you had to compromise on anything, when you, as a man, are the apex organism on this planet and should compromise for nothing. Once you have your path defined, which takes a long time and a lot of introspection, the path you have chosen to walk has no room for weakness, no room for compromise, and requires your complete dedication and focus. Anything that gets in the way of that becomes an obstacle that must be overcome.