Across all cultures, men are told the same thing from childhood: man up, go to work, provide and enjoy a wife and family. This basic script has sustained men through difficult times and helped them overcome any doubts they may have had in themselves or in the path that was chosen for them. Men go along with this script because it is spread at every level, by his family, his friends, the media, the education system, cultural norms, and any attempt to stray from this path or even offer criticism against it brings the typical shaming tactics that we are all so familiar with. Shaming tactics are thrown against a man’s masculinity, his intelligence, his sanity, and even his sexuality.
They must use shaming and keep him from questioning because as soon as he is allowed to address the concerns he has with the established script, the worldwide dominant narrative of male sacrifice, the whole thing falls apart. Once you see the script for what it is, an amateur attempt at keeping you tied down to society because it needs you more than you need it, then you can never look at the world the same way again. You start to see all the traps that were laid out to ensnare you, and a wave of cynicism will wash over you as you understand that you weren’t a person in the eyes of society and everyone who spouted the old script, you were merely a utility that they wanted to use for their own gains.
Understanding how each party would have benefited from your servitude is important to being able to see all the traps set for you. A hunter must remain vigilant or he becomes the prey.
Your friends bought into the script and fed you the lie because they need you to play along with their petty life plans. If you are enjoying the fruits of freedom, free of the stress and self-doubt that they bring into their own lives, then you challenge all of the choices they have made that led them to where they are. Jealousy is just as present in men as it is in women, and just as ugly. People avoid challenges as much as they can, so to remain their friends you have to conform by actually sinking to their levels or by holding your tongue. Your silence will eventually not be enough, because they will see the tangible, positive benefits that going mgtow gives you and resent you for it.
Your family fed you the lies because they needed you to further the family line and to produce grandchildren for them. Understanding female nature negates the meaning of family trees. How many branches on that family tree do you think were the products of adultery and paternity fraud? Especially in older times, when men could only distinguish paternity fraud with the naked eye? Women are fickle creatures, moving with their emotions as trees move with the wind. Any foundations built atop a woman are built on sand, unreliable at best and hazardous at worst. Women have absolute control over the family tree, which means the integrity of it and the quality of it are tied to the whims of the woman for each branch. You may be the most alpha pussy slayer of your generation, but one of your ancestors was guaranteed to be a simp, or maybe just a good guy who was cheated on without his knowledge. Understanding your lineage is important, because great men got us to this point in history, but it goes beyond blood. Worry about what deeds you are doing in your lifetime, not what your potential children or your past ancestors did with your name.
Taking a step back and thinking with your brain and not being guided by your reproductive instincts is one of the greatest advantages you have being a man. Women must fulfill their reproductive programming, they are hardwired to follow it at any cost. The consequences of not following their base instincts and fighting it with the help of social engineering leads them to the insanity that we are being subjected to on a daily basis.
Society forced the old script down your throat because it can not exist in its current form without it. Without men being in a state of servitude, cities would be on fire. The corporations have profited from your hopes and miseries as they force their goods on you to buy for their made-up holidays. They use cheap marketing tactics that women fall for to indoctrinate them into a trance of endless consumerism until there is no hope for lasting satisfaction, only a temporary respite before the next product is released.
If you’ve been MGTOW long enough, you can look over the old script and maybe even laugh as you see what kept you down for so long. This script will always exist, no matter how much things change in the future. MGTOW isn’t about saving all men, it’s about helping the ones who can save themselves. The script is constructed in such a way that only the men who seriously challenge it will be able to see through it. Overcoming biology, cultural conditioning and false ideas of romanticism is a godly feat, so don’t feel disappointed in those who can’t throw away the script. You and I were in a similar position to those on the plantation once, maybe not in the same way, but we all had to learn to see through the lies and question the narrative on our own first.
Shaming language is designed to keep men from thinking about the script they’ve been given. Having to mentally defend your sexuality, life purpose, masculinity, and sanity is all very draining. Men are logical creatures, after all. If a man sees that one path leads to endless criticism and the other to acceptance, can you really blame him for sticking to the tried and true formula? Only the curious and the broken, who have nothing else to loose, will venture into the unknown.
Once you realize that the people trying to shame you have not had any original thought influence their own script that they operate from, you can understand that it isn’t directed from them personally, but rather the collective they operate from. It is the group speaking through the mouth of the individual, not the individual speaking to the group. Without their conformed nature, they would have no insults to throw.
The insults they use are ones that are reinforced through their unity with the established script. They can challenge your sexuality because theirs is perceived to be established within the operating paradigm. Their masculinity is defined by others, so they don’t need to define it themselves. When they challenge yours, they see that as a slight, whereas you should see it as a blessing. Being able to define your own masculinity enables you to function freely and without input from those who are not masculine. Challenges to your character follow the same model, because their character is tied to the group collective. The shaming language used against your sanity are amusing, because creating your own script and leaving the group behind takes a powerful mind that also enjoys risk, which would be perceived as unstable to the cowards that toe the line.
Creating a new script is the most exciting part that MGTOW offers. It takes time to deprogram and start to think for yourself. We’ve been trained to take everyone else’s needs and desires into consideration that it becomes an effort to put ourselves first. Once you overcome that and start to see the potential that is now in front of you, you start to get over that depression and start to get hopeful and inspired at what you can now accomplish.
The new script that you make for yourself is completely personalized and is exactly what you want it to be. The script will constantly change as you revise it and edit things in or out. Learn how to cook, learn a new language, learn to fly something or sail, take up a new sport or a new instrument, these things may not hold your interest and that’s ok because you can edit them out of your script and add something new. I’m taking an online drawing class because I’ve always wanted to be able to do something more than stick figures. When I finish with it, I can decide if I want to keep going with it or drop it and add something else. My script is flexible because it is my script, it is not beholden to any other person or party.
Sharing your script with other liberated men is a fun thing to do. Anyone on the plantation following the old script has no uniqueness to offer. They all say the same things about the same types of women, complain about the same lack of free time or difficulties in pleasing their overlords, whereas MGTOW men can talk about the new bike they bought or the trip they just went on or the new hobby they started. Removing the dominant and identical variables from your script, the ones that enslaved you, allows all those other smaller variables to rise to the top and shine.